Thursday 23 April 2015

Don't Fall For Fake Friends

Hello Everyone :D 

Been a long time since I last updated. You all must be curious what I really did in these months..  Well, I was flourishing and suffering at the same time☺ Was busy dealing with good and wrong ones.
Don't worry, perfectly good now..!! 


I hate the sequence of events that proceed betrayal by anyone, let alone someone considered to be a person close to you or someone you once confided in. The ache in the
pit of your stomach from the initial blow of the let down, the pulsating of your temple as you try
to ponder why this is happenening, and the pacing back and forth across an empty room in attempts to maintain your composure.
Lessons are very painful in life, when someone who is close to you, ditches you, that hits harder than most. I am very familiar with fake friends and the very real heartache that comes each time their true nature is revealed.


I know the pain that accompanies the betrayal of a false friend is a sting not like many others. I also know the relief of the removal of such a person from your life is just as great. Sometimes
we are unaware of the wolves in sheeps clothing that have crept into our houses. We are left to wonder which is worse? A) That they were
wolves from the start or B) We are just now figuring it out? 
Either way, it hurts. I am getting better at acceptance and trusting. There is a reason for the way things happen sometimes. We do not always understand why the temporal pain we feel may very well be for long term happiness. God, however, knows why
every time, and I can personally thank him for removing certain people throughout my life probably I would have held on to ignorantly forever.

If someone has lied to you, hurt you or hindered your progress in life repeatedly, chances are they are wolves too.
Forgiveness is necessary, but
self sabotage is not. If you are involved with angry, copy cats, jealous, or spiteful people posing as your friends yet acting more like your enemies, begin to take inventory of these types of people in your life and honestly start to remove them accordingly. .
Fake friends are a very real problem for us all. Not many can say they have not experienced one in their life at some point. Despite a few bad apples, the harvest of your relationships will
prove to be pie worthy! Do not be bitter in the betrayal of these people, but allow the experience to make you a bit better each time!

Rest, next time.
K.bye!
God bless us all :)

2 comments:

  1. Ohoo!! Amazingly written...all facts are very true!!
    Try ur luck in some newspaper

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